PEOPLE SHOULD READ THIS:

Okay. I just had a realization.

Like, most people are mean and they're actually proud of it.
It's not pleasing to the eyes, I swear.
It's okay if you like morbid stuff or see other people suffer and all but.
It's not nice to ACTUALLY inflict pain on other people.
Well, fine it's kinda okay hehe but then you should know your limit right? And like, it's not nice to see that you actually boast or show people that you're proud of it. Just enjoy the view of suffering people in silence. And when you think it's actually cool to be mean and all, showing people how "cool" you are, it looks right and "worth praising" to you but not to others. I mean, like laughing at people is okay but there is a limit.

I learned this today. One of my classmates before. I met w/ them somewhere. She was oh so happy till one of my friends started to laugh at her. Then she started to become emo and all, it made me worry. She's not really that kind of person who would get pissed easily. But I swear. She was so pissed it looked like she wanted to chop my other friend into pieces.

Yeah so it's like. When you tease a person, do you know that it's actually good to see or at least feel that they're getting pissed? I mean, at least you get to know that it's time for you to stop.(But it's better for you to think before you act. So no harm done.) While there are other people who just stay quiet and smile even in the inside, they're hurt and probably,they already hold a grudge and they already have thoughts on killing you, slicing you into pieces, feeding your remains to the crocodiles or whatever......That's what my friend felt. I've never seen her so angry. I mean she just smiled. But then when the time passed, my other friend would still joke around, and she never listened to her. She'd like smile at me and like play w/ my wallet. That's all. I'm so worried.

Look. There's a difference:
"HAHAHAHAHA! I JUST LOOVE TO SEE YOU SUFFER! I love morbid, I swear!"
and;
".........Indeed, blood is good.....Hehe."

Then there's

"I know, I'm mean. Live with it"
and
"......I'm mean? Awww...... Did I hurt you? Okay. I'll stop. I'm sorry"


See? Which sounds better, pleasing and polite? I know this sounds cheesy or uncool or corny to actually sy that being nice to other people is good, Like,even if you're mean by nature or whatever, don't go barging in to other people's lives and start messing up w/ them. Or like when a person greets you, don't start saying "EWWW GERMS!" or something that can actually hurt a person. Just say "Hey! What's up?" or "Hi!" or "Nice to see ya" or a simple smile would change everything. And IF you did say something that can hurt the person greeting you, say that you're joking of course or whatever or else the person might take it seriously. And....If you really hate the person or dislike them, ....wave or whatever....Or don't mind them. I mean. They're humans too, like us. They have feelings. (If you're one of those people who say that you're too mean that you don't have feelings at all, it's impossible) I, myself have people who I don't like but I actually smile at them or like at least nod when they greet me (that is so not plastic).

See? Being nice is the coolest thing ever.
Being all-mean?.....It gives you this jerk impression. People will kinda back away from you or whatever. We don't want that now, do we?

I know what I said was too long but to sum things up, be nice to people. It works a lot. If you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all. And if a person is mean to you, accept it and be nice as well. It's his/her loss if he/she's mean to you. You're being nice. Nothing bad about it. No regrets. Heaven is on the way.

Mean people ARE NOT COOL. I SWEAR IT'S NOT PLEASING TO THE EYES, EARS, EVEN THE HEART (emotions) It's not nice to see that people are mean and they actually think it makes them cool or fierce or whatever. It's just a thing that losers, posers and whatever people do. Starting next week, I'll just smile or laugh or whatever. I'll still be myself, laughing at shallow things but I'll soon stop when I'm at my limit so that I won't hurt other people's feelings.

PS: Mia, I know you visit my dA, if you read this......I feel your pain... *hugs*


OH~ And I'd be glad to link to other people's dA's but...Then I'm new here and I'm still in the process of actually learning...And most of all...

I'm too lazy.

Just check my watchers.